The day I paid dowry for Sylvia was supposed to be the happiest day of my life.
My uncles danced. Her mother ululated. I handed over the gifts with trembling hands, not because I was nervous, but because I believed I was finally securing a future with the woman I adored.
We’d dated for three years. I supported her through college. I even helped her open her salon in Umoja. I sacrificed everything to prove my love. And when she said “yes” to marriage, I felt like the most blessed man on earth.
But less than two months after dowry, Sylvia left me, without warning, without shame, without even returning my calls.
She sent me a single message:
“I’ve thought about it deeply. I can’t continue. I’m sorry.”
Just like that.
I rushed to her salon, thinking maybe it was stress or pressure. It was closed. Neighbors told me she hadn’t shown up in days. I called her sister, who mumbled something about “family decisions.” I knew something was wrong.
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